Almost single

[Fishnngolfn]

The papers are signed but we are now waiting for the judge to sign them. Should be in about 2 to 3 weeks. Things have been somewhat civil. But my soon to be ex-wife is realizing that when she doesn't think (which is quite often) before she speaks or acts and those words or actions affect me, I respond in a matter that will help her think next time. She thinks that I am being petty but I am tired of being walked on.

She has already moved in with her mother and is living in a 14 by 14 ft room with her, her 12 year old daughter, my 2 year old son, and 2 cats. She sleeps on a folding cot while the kids sleep on a single bed. I have moved into an apartment over-looking the swimming pool and pond stocked with blue gill and bass .

[flbassman]

Good for you man. Glad to hear things are startin to work out ok.

[nofearengineer]

Originally Posted by Fishnngolfn

The papers are signed but we are now waiting for the judge to sign them. Should be in about 2 to 3 weeks. Things have been somewhat civil. But my soon to be ex-wife is realizing that when she doesn't think (which is quite often) before she speaks or acts and those words or actions affect me, I respond in a matter that will help her think next time. She thinks that I am being petty but I am tired of being walked on.

She has already moved in with her mother and is living in a 14 by 14 ft room with her, her 12 year old daughter, my 2 year old son, and 2 cats. She sleeps on a folding cot while the kids sleep on a single bed. I have moved into an apartment over-looking the swimming pool and pond stocked with blue gill and bass .

Well, enjoy your superior outcome while it lasts. Women have a special way of winning these things in the long run. Like Bob Mould sang in the Husker Du song..."You're makin' me sorry...sorry somehow.."

Good luck, bruthah!

[1/4 stick]

Originally Posted by nofearengineer

Well, enjoy your superior outcome while it lasts. Women have a special way of winning these things in the long run. Like Bob Mould sang in the Husker Du song..."You're makin' me sorry...sorry somehow.."

Good luck, bruthah!

yep, very true.

The papers are signed but we are now waiting for the judge to sign them. Should be in about 2 to 3 weeks. Things have been somewhat civil. But my soon to be ex-wife is realizing that when she doesn't think (which is quite often) before she speaks or acts and those words or actions affect me, I respond in a matter that will help her think next time. She thinks that I am being petty but I am tired of being walked on.

She has already moved in with her mother and is living in a 14 by 14 ft room with her, her 12 year old daughter, my 2 year old son, and 2 cats. She sleeps on a folding cot while the kids sleep on a single bed. I have moved into an apartment over-looking the swimming pool and pond stocked with blue gill and bass .

Best advise I can give is to forget about what and how the ex is doing and just concentrate on how your kid is doing. And it may sound stupid to some, but if it was me, and her daughter still wanted to have me in her life, I'd make sure it was clear that she was welcome. She's at the age where this could affect her a lot more than she lets on. Just my 2 cents. And I wish you the best of luck man.

[MallenManson]

Originally Posted by nofearengineer

Well, enjoy your superior outcome while it lasts. Women have a special way of winning these things in the long run. Like Bob Mould sang in the Husker Du song..."You're makin' me sorry...sorry somehow.."

Good luck, bruthah!

At least at this point though, he's getting the gold mine and she's getting the shaft...or no longer getting it....or something