07-10-09, 03:03 PM | #1 |
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Divorce papers - Round 1
Well, the soon to be ex-wife and I are in our first round of going back and forth with the divorce papers and the wording. I, being the eternal optimist that I am, believe that it will take only ONE round of negotiations . If that be the case, I will be a single man before August 1st. I cannot wait for this to be over. I have lost over 50 lbs over the past 6 months. I feel like the guyat the end of the movie Stephen King's Thinner.
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07-10-09, 03:08 PM | #2 |
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Fish'n....I TOLD you not to be going and killin' no Gypsies!!
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Don't worry about the house, the cars, your clothes, your dignity, whatever, let her have it all, as long as she doesn't get the fishing stuff!
So... I don't really know if I should go to "Sorry to hear about your divorce" or "way to go man! congrats!" BB
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She cheated on me and I was still wanting to work it out. She finally said she wants a divorce because she said she is not in love with me and doesn't think she will feel any different no matter what I do. You can say "congrats" for the divorce and me not having to deal with the fantasy world she lives in but you can say "sorry" because of my every-other-weekend visitation with my son. It will suck not seeing him every day.
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Let me guess, Fishn...is she younger than you?
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Yes. By about 5 years. She has no college degree and a child from when she was in high school that I never adopted. Our 4th anniversary was this past June but it was essentially over (in her mind) in January of this year.
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07-10-09, 03:45 PM | #7 |
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Give her the pie! Best of luck Fng!
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Been through it 3 times, the cheating wife part only once thank God. All you can do is realize it is what it is and carry on with your life, and make sure you make the most of every minute you get with your child. I hope things go as quick and easy for you as possible.
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Yeah, there isn't much any of us can say that will make you feel any better. Just try to remember it's all about the kid at this point. Even if she behaves poorly, you can walk the high road.
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From experience...If she starts getting nasty,get nastier or you will pay dearly.But NEVER ever badmouth her in front of your son.
I wish you the best.
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i agree with bassin tom on his take of the court dealings pal. no such thing as a good divorce when the lady takes away everything ya got. been there, done that. took 12 years to get over the finances.
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Even though I am picking up a child support payment, it feels like I am getting a raise because I don't have her car payment, car insurance, cell phone bill, and her daughter's cell phone bill. Add to that, I am saving about $200 in gas by moving closer to my job, Plus rent on an apartment is much less than a mortgage on a house that is nowhere near the value I paid for it due to the current housing market. |
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great news f&g. hurry with the signing like ya said though.
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