breakup

[BassFeverJohn]

Last night Carla came over and dumped me. So no I'm single, and she is my ex.

With all due respect to Jay, she was my best fishing buddy. If I don't miss anything else about her, I know I will miss that.

[carolina-rig-01]

Sorry to hear that buddy. Keep your head up and know that things always seem to work out for the better in the end.

[Jim80]

Sorry to hear it man , but there's other fish in the pond ( sorry couldn't pass it up ) .



Jim

[bassboogieman]

Sorry to hear, but at least it's not a DIVORCE where she get's half your stuff. Time to start phishing for a new "partner". And if there is a bright side to this - it's better to have it happen now, than deeper into a relationship.

[WatterBoy]

Sorry to hear that, BFJ. Hang in there.

[nofearengineer]

Tom Petty said it best I think..."You Got Lucky" lyrics:

you better watch what you say
you better watch what you do to me
don't get carried away

girl if you can do better than me
go...yeah, go

but remember, good love is hard to find,
good love is hard to find,
you got lucky babe
you got lucky babe, when I found you

you put a hand on my cheek
and then you turned your eyes away
if it don't feel complete, if I don't take you all of the way
then go...yeah, go

but remember, good love is hard to find,
good love is hard to find,
you got lucky babe
you got lucky babe, when I found you

yeah, go...just go
but remember, good love is hard to find,
good love is hard to find,
you got lucky babe
you got lucky babe, when I found you

The immortal Phil Lynott (Thin Lizzy) also said it well in this excerpt from "The Boys are Back in Town":

"if that chick don't wanna know, forget her"

Remember man....there are far worse things than being single...try being a middle-aged man, totally whipped, and basically having to ask permission to go to the bathroom. I see it all the time...some of my friends' testicles must be kept in their wives' purses. They are actually pathetic enough to say the words "I'll have to see if my wife will let me" when I ask them if they want to go fishing. LOL

You're free, man. Enjoy it. There's only 3 billion more women on the planet. Surely more than just one digs you.

[Ebbetsguy]

in a bit you will be singing this to her
from BBKING; Never Make Your Move Too Soon



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLHl5Ea9Yco

[Ebbetsguy]

Check your PM's for link to Neillson's: Youre Breaking my heart

Best break up song in history, LANGUAGE!

[CMorg]

Since were talking songs I will go ahead and throw in Eamon - F#@k it , the check out CeeLo Greens song - F@#k you. Then look up Rich Hardisty-Never wanna see you again.

What the heck , Justin Timberlake - What comes around goes around.

Those songs helped me in the past , except ceelo green , as he is too new.

[bamabassman]

well john, she wasn't worth it then man. sorry though buddy. there is another gal out there just for you. keep the faith pal.

[keithdog]

Thats a darn shame John and I'm sorry to hear it. Apparently it wasn't meant to be. But the right gal is out there wattin for ya buddy. Another song I think you might want to listen to is a Garth Brooks song. I believe it's called Unanswered Prayers.

[nofearengineer]

Originally Posted by keithdog

I believe it's called Unanswered Prayers.

OMG, Keith....I forgot about that one. It's great. I have run into a couple "unanswered prayers" at the grocery store or something, and let me tell you...what a difference a few years makes LOL.

[carolina-rig-01]

Here is a good one that might make you feel better, if not it will atleast make you laugh a little. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2rZ_uqDqGA

[CiK]

Keep your head up man!! There is a lot of truth to doors closing and windows opening.

[BassFeverJohn]

Thanks for all the support and great songs guys!

To be honest, while I am sad that an almost 4 year friendship is at an end, I am actually pretty much ok. I am sure it wil hit me later on and I'll have a good cry in my beer, but in all honesty I am just not really broken up about it. Sad, sure, but not broken.

I shall continue to move forward.

[BassFeverJohn]

P.S. BAMA

If you really feel sorry for me you'll never change that avatar.

[carolina-rig-01]

Originally Posted by BassFeverJohn

Thanks for all the support and great songs guys!

To be honest, while I am sad that an almost 4 year friendship is at an end, I am actually pretty much ok. I am sure it wil hit me later on and I'll have a good cry in my beer, but in all honesty I am just not really broken up about it. Sad, sure, but not broken.

I shall continue to move forward.

That's the right attitude to have Hoss! Like everyone else said, Ms. Right is waiting out there for you somewhere and you will be better off in the long run.

[MIbasser]

Sorry to hear that John. Being in a relationship has its perks but so does being single. Take it from the guy who went out with two girls last night and ended up in a hot tub, bathing suits were optional..... I'll just leave it at that. Oh, and bama saw my facebook posting last night so he can vouch for me....

[Bubba_Bruiser]

Sorry to hear about that John. Keep on, keeping on man.

[BigBassin144]

Sorry to hear about this man, it really sucks. But you know what they say: New tackle is the best medicine! So go out and buy yourself a new rod and reel combo. or two, or a boat!

BB

[keithdog]

Originally Posted by MIbasser

Take it from the guy who went out with two girls last night and ended up in a hot tub, bathing suits were optional..... I'll just leave it at that. Oh,

Say what

[bamabassman]

john......i DO feel for ya pal. BUT............. march 1st the REAL avatar will return. lol.

[Jrob78]

Sorry about the breakup man. The one piece of advice I will give you is to take a step back and try to look at it from an unbiased point of view. Be honest and acknowledge the things you did wrong. Don't make the same mistakes with the next one. Life is full of ups and downs and painful experiences, if you don't learn anything from your screw ups you will repeat them.

[Vegasspider]

…..when trying to impress a new girl, don’t wear gloves when taking a fish off the hook…… Just kidding hang in there. I have been married 30 years. It feels like 15 mins.



Under water!

[Abbeysdad]

just wasn't meant to be ... moving on